I can’t give an accurate answer. But I can play around. I’ve learned that all places have their drawbacks.
If I could live anywhere, where would I consider?
- Mexico
- Costa Rica
- Greece
- Belize
- North or South Carolina (without much excitement, of course)
I had to factor in money because everything I know goes back to money and time. If I could do what I want, I would most likely be a nomad going from place to place. The only thing I would miss is having a dog or any pet for that matter. I don’t feel comfortable traveling with dogs. Even once a year is too much.
Anyway, it makes me sad how short my list is. And Mexico is probably off the list due to constant fireworks. I doubt it’s that way in rural places, but I would only feel comfortable there if I were fluid in Spanish. Despite all my current struggles, I think I could be fluent in it if I paid for conversational tutoring. I need real practice. I used to be able to read Spanish at a 3rd grade level. And speak it at maybe 2nd grade.
I don’t think place matters that much. But rural versus city matters. This might seem random, but if you are having difficulty with resources DON’T move to a rural place unless you know you will be okay there. I mean you are 100% sure. Cities have more resources. It sounds great to be completely alone, but what if you need to go to the store or a specialist?
Someone recently said I go to the beach when I’m down. Yes! That’s the only thing that always helps. I haven’t been to the beach since 2019. And this is why my life sucks. If you think I’m being serious…It’s expensive especially with a dog. Those dog fees are outrageous. But I might plan a beach trip for 2025. I should just say eff it and splurge with money I don’t have and tell myself that nothing bad will happen. But that’s not my reality. But I might live a little. I probably won’t be alive in 15 years. When can I stop trying to live this life I despise? Oh, that’s another entry. Not today.
The beach makes me come alive and I’ve never needed to feel something so bad.
Back to the prompt – As of right now, I’m pretty sure I would move from place to place if I could. I’m adaptable, but 6 months to a year in a place would be best for me. Not a new city every 2 weeks. I need time to experience a place and rest.