I was thinking loyalty* first and then honesty. But what is loyalty without honesty? I can’t seriously talk to someone who lies often. Lies like saying you are fine when you are 1 minute from breaking down is fine. I don’t count that as a lie. But the lying I had from a recent acquaintance who wanted to be friends. HORRID.
She lied about serious stuff. She said she knew a way to get me out of debt. I believed her for a day. But reality always knocks. But what if she was talking to a gullible person?? What if they spent more that month because she believed she wouldn’t have debt the next month? THIS IS CRIMINAL. or extremely serious.
She may have lied about other things too. See? I still don’t know. But those things don’t really hurt a person. It made one thing I do more time-consuming. That’s it. It adds about 5 minutes each day. I can handle that. But lying about important things like tests and money is a no-no.
She should be donezo. But I haven’t told her yet. I just moved, and she was excited about that. Like everyone else. More excited than me. LOL.
Oh yeah, I finally moved. The good, the bad, and the ugly coming this weekend. Maybe. This is not a promise, but I want to document it, so I am prioritizing it. Whether I finish the whole post by Sunday is up in the air.
Honesty, by far, is the most important thing in a friend and a person. The end.