Uh, it depends on who you ask. However, in my opinion, I would like to be able to pay attention to learning new things, pursuing hobbies, appreciating nature, and spending time with my dog.
Less attention on trying to figure out health stuff since the medical professionals are useless (minus a few things that went well without too much trial & error) and work. I never, ever, ever want to think about work again. I’m done. I’ve put in enough hours/days/weeks/months/years, in my opinion.
And if I could never have to pay attention to people’s judgements and assumptions, that would be golden! I only have to pay attention when it affects my basic needs, such as having a place to live, maintaining my health, and being able to pay my bills. G-d forbid I have a little fun. People will NOT allow that. I did all the right things (plus a little extra) and the answer is still no.
If what Jessica thought didn’t matter, why would I care? I think I’ve proven that I’m logical enough not to care about the little things. I walk around without makeup. I don’t care about status or how I look. I’m not talking about superficial things. I can’t afford to care about those things.